Lots of young people worry about staying safe when they are out and about. Although Oxfordshire is a safe county, young people can be more at risk. You can easily keep yourself and your friends safe if you stay alert and calm:
- Stay together and look out for each other
- Avoid confrontations and don't get into fights
- Be aware of your surroundings (traffic, rivers, other people)
- Plan your journeys and stick to the plan
When heading out, it’s always safer to be in a group. So stick with your friends or family where possible.
Crucial: Fights ruin lives. Think about the future and #walkaway - explore the issues with Thames Valley Police.
Out on your own
Lots of people do walk home or go out alone after dark, as part of their normal lives, going home from work, a night out, or study. This should be safe, but you can take steps to make your journey safer:
- Plan your route
- Use well lit, busy streets
- Avoid alleys or short cuts
This may mean having to take a slightly longer route, but will keep you safer. Pay attention to your surroundings and be extra aware when walking past bars or pubs, as people leaving them may be unpredictable if they’ve been drinking.
Crucial: If you feel in danger, get lost, or need to call someone, you might not feel comfortable reaching for your mobile in the street. You can get on a bus, or go to shops, shopping centres or other locations displaying a Safe Haven or Safe Places sticker, and call for help from there.
Oxfordshire's trains and buses are mostly very safe. They have cameras, and guards or drivers can call for help if you are being harassed. But if you are worried:
- Travel with friends, or stick close to groups of people.
- Make sure you know when your last bus is, and have a back up plan for if you miss it
- Make sure your mobile phone is charged and on
If you are using taxis, pre-book, phone a verified number or use licensed vehicles from a taxi stand.
Crucial: If you or a friend is in danger, get attention and call 999.
For over 18s, drinking alcohol may be part of an evening out. Drinking impairs your judgement, and makes you more likely to take risks and less aware of your surroundings. Plan your route home carefully, and make sure you look out for your friends.
Crucial: Try to avoid routes home which take you past risks like dangerous roads and rivers.
Sexual or homophobic harassment
Sexual or homophobic harassment should not be part of an evening out. If you are harassed, report it.
Crucial: Are you or a friend being persistently targeted with sexual harassment or sexual proposals? If you are under 18, this may be Child Sexual Exploitation - and you should take urgent action to stop it.
If something happens
If you feel you’re being followed, don’t panic, stay alert and enter a well-lit public building, like a shop or restaurant and then phone someone you trust. If you don’t have a phone, ask if you can use the building’s phone. If you’re really worried, call the police’s non-emergency line on 101 or call 999. Other things which might help:
- Carry a personal alarm, which can emit a loud, high-pitched sound, to scare off attackers and let people know you’re in danger.
- Carry your bag close to you with the clasp inwards and carry your house keys, wallet and mobile in a secure, inside pocket.
- If your bag zips, keep it zipped up!
- If you use a wheelchair, keep valuables beside you, rather than at the back of the chair.
If someone grabs your bag, let go. If you hang on you could get hurt. Remember your safety is more important than your property. If you are attacked, dial 999 and ask for police. This will work on any phone. If you need an ambulance, the police will call one for you.
Crucial: Being attacked is rare. But people who have attacked one person usually go on to attack others, sometimes on the same night. Always report the incident right away, even if you are fine. The next person targeted may be less lucky or more vulnerable, and you could save someone's life.